Oh. My. With my updated profile posted, I've been perusing the profiles of available men. Yikes. This topic was started by my friend Allison, who is also doing the online dating thing. She posted a question on Facebook about the odd photos men use, like posing with fish. This prompted the first part of this post. I have this advice to offer to men, before asking all of you for help choosing my own profile photos below: Men, here's what not to do in your online dating profile photos, and what we think: Shirtless photos: So many